06 January, 2017

10 ans (l'âge)

Are you happier than a 5th grader?

After recently witnessing a day of emotional extremes for two 10-year-olds in my regular vacation care role, some reflections.

Like  me, both are from Asian families. Unlike me, both are boys.

Like me, both have anger management and emotional regulation issues. Unlike me, as far as I know from conversations with them, they seem without hope and without God in the world.

I remember something of being aged 10-11 and finishing Year 5. I'd had an OK year that year. Not perfect (and in Year 4 I'd been excessively bullied most of the year at school), but I seem to remember not feeling hugely sad, or angry, or depressed very often. (Mind you, this was before Mum and Dad's marriage broke up due to selfish life choices on my Dad's part.)

And if you were my Sunday School teacher, or a Christian in the 25-40 y.o. age bracket, and if you asked me when I was in 5th grade, "How do you know you'll get into heaven if you died tonight?" I would have said confidently that Jesus' dying for me on the cross meant I was saved, forgiven, and sure of new life in heaven. Even then, though life between that time and now would prove sad, frustrating, depressing, enraging, and most of all quite honestly more unfair than many of my peers, I never wanted to die - never felt hopeless - never felt that anything could take away my joy in the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Though I understand it better now than when I was a 5th grader, Jesus was always my life and I am so thankful to God for His mercy even when I was small.

In thinking over the issues leading, this week, to an angry, verbally abusive and physically violent argument that exploded between the two Year 5 boys I first mentioned (boys who are friends with each other, might I add), it occurred to me (not for the first time) that

- whilst both these children, not yet eleven years of age, have the same low self-esteem, the same violent temper, the same inability to manage extreme emotions in a socially appropriate way as I did even up until recently -

they are in a state of despair that God has so mercifully spared me, because He gave me parents who taught me about His love shown through Jesus.

I know they despair, one boy because I know the personal and academic pressures from his family and I can see it in his exhausted body language, and the other because he told me he hates his life, it seems so hard, and sometimes he feels he wants to kill himself. Not (according to a colleague working with me) the first time he has expressed such sentiments.

These boys need hope.
They need God.
They have neither.

At the same age as they were, I had both. And I remain, to this day, as secure in my eternal destination and purpose as I would have been in Year 5 had you asked me the "what if..?" question back then. In fact, more secure, more confident because as a 5th grader I'd barely suffered the way I see that they have, whereas now I've lived through pain.

And yet the difference is not so much an easy life or a hard life - the difference, I see so clearly, is the merciful Lordship of Jesus Christ.


05 November, 2016

1 oeuvre (musique)

Ever since I discovered the complete recording of Tchaikovsky's Casse-Noisette (Nutcracker ballet music) in my early teens, I have associated this particular adagio movement (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnmbas-eOWI) with feelings of nostalgia.

Sometimes also with a longing to hold on to something that you know you need to let go of.


It has been an emotional couple of days at college contemplating the loss of a large handful of friends who depart the College bubble indefinitely this month.

A loss for me because some of them will no longer be based anywhere near Sydney (Brisbane or Armidale for example) and, realistically, it's going to be so hard to keep regularly in touch, so different from seeing them every day or at least once a week.

A loss also even for those moving on into ministry (or returning to the workforce - or a bit of both) within the Sydney metro' region
- because although I love these people and feel they're such valued friends, life is so busy for all of us serving full-time or part-time here that you don't really get to stay connected as much unless you're labouring hard on both ends to maintain correspondence. (Also, unless they feel they have the time to keep up as much with me as I wish to with them - and since over half are introverts by nature this might well drain them of the energy they need for ministry.)

Time to go and read ACTS 20; my memory of that section tells me that could be helpful for Bible-based reflection...

...well, passages like this may resound a bit, anyway.
"Mais je ne fais pour moi-même aucun cas de ma vie, comme si elle m'était précieuse,
pourvu que j'accomplisse ma course avec joie, et le ministère que j'ai reçu du Seigneur Jésus,
d'annoncer la bonne nouvelle de la grâce de Dieu.
Et maintenant voici, je sais que vous ne verrez plus mon visage,
vous tous au milieu desquels j'ai passé en prêchant le royaume de Dieu."
ACTES 20,24-25


^ If watching the clip rather than just listening to Tchaikovsky's music - see how the girl wants to hold on to one, but how this is complicated by the other...

20 September, 2016

nombreux paroles

They say "of making many words there is no end", but I liked these, so I'm replicating them from f'book.

Merci beaucoup tous mes amis!


Ab.L ~ Happy birthday lovely!!
Al.G ~ Bonne anniversaire!
AKY ~ Happy birthday beautiful lady! Hope you have a great day! x
An.L ~ Feliz cumpleaños!
An.Z ~ Happy birthday
Be.Y ~ happy birthday ----tia!
Be.L ~ Happy birthday ----tia!
Ca.Li ~ Happy birthday !
Ca.K ~ Happy birthday, ----tia! Have a great day. :)
Ca.La ~ Happy birthday ----tia! 
Ch.T ~ Happy birthday MLTC
Ch.E ~ Happy birthday lovely lady!!! Hope you've had a great day! xx
Ch.R ~ Happy birthday ----tia! Hope you have a lovely day :)
Da.H ~ happy belated bday!!!
Er.C ~ Happy birthday ----tia!!!! ☺☺
Fi.B ~ Happy Birthday ----cia xx
Ge.Z ~ Happy birthday T---!
Ir.P ~ Happy birthday my friend!
Ir.HY ~ Happy birthday ----tia!! Hope you're having a wonderful day! Lots of love from the Yamagishis.
Iv.Z ~ Happy birthday ----tia! :)
Je.Ch. ~ Happy Birthday 💕
Je.Cr ~ Happy birthday MLTC - lots of love - The Crawford's🎉🎈🎉🎈
Je.L ~ Happy Birthday 🙂
Je.S ~ Happy birthday ----sha! God bless :)
Jo.H. ~ Happy birthday!!
JOW ~ happy birthday, ----tia! :)
KYC ~ Happy birthday, my friend. 🍰🎉🎊🍾💐😃
Ka.Cc ~ Happy Birthday lovely! Hope you have a good day :)
Kr.C ~ Happy birthday!
Le.G ~ Happy birthday!
Le.M ~ Happy Birthday dear T---! Hope you had a lovely day too ❤
Lil.L ~ Happy birthday ----tia!
Lin.L ~ Happy Birthday ----tia! May it be a special day for you, to know that you are a special and wonderful part of His family!
Lu.L ~ [ (cake picture) ]
Ma.G ~ Happy birthday ----tia! Hope you had a joyful day with those you love at college, learning many good things! :)
Ma.H ~ Happy birthday T--- xx
Ma.D ~ Happy birthday.
Me.N ~ Happy birthday T---! :)
Mi.Y ~ Happy birthday :).
Nh.Y ~ Happy bday, T---!!!🎉🎉🎉 Hope it's a wonderful and enjoyable day!😎 May God shower you with His love, mercies and rich blessings for the year ahead!🙏😘 love, N. & J.
Ni.TM ~ Happy birthday! Hope you've had a great day
NNS ~ Happy birthday ----cia, nyo & Sid
PRS ~ Happy birthday :)
Ph.P ~ Happy birthday, ----tia!
Ra.E ~ Happy birthday T---!! I hope you have a lovely day :) x
Ra.B ~ Happy birthday!
Re.H ~ Joyeux Anniversaire! Gros bisous xx :)
Re.Y ~ Happy Birthday ----tia!
Sa.D ~ Happy birthday ----tia!!! Thank you for your encouragement and conversations! God bless you
Sa.K ~ Happy Birthday!
Si.W ~ Happy Birthday L and L!
Te.C ~ Happy birthday, ----tia! Have a blessed one :)
TMM ~ Happy birthdaaay!
Va.G ~ Happy birthday lovely!!!
Vi.W ~ Happy birthday!!!
Vi.X ~ Happy birthday!! Hope you had a lovely day! :)
Yv.Z ~ Happy Birthday ----cia!
Zo.W ~ Happy birthday ~~~~~


An.K ~ Have a great day today, Miss-l't. Happy birthday.
An.L ~ Happy birthday!
DL(unc.) ~ Happy B'Day !
DH(lec) ~ HPBD2U
Ja.T ~ Happy birthday ----tia! And [twin].
Ju.F ~ Happy bday!
Pe.H ~ Joyeux Anniversaire MLTC! .. Affectueusement en Christ ..P. + R.
Ro.C ~ Happy birthday!
Si.C ~ Happy birthday.
Te.K ~ Joyeux Anniversaire!
To.T ~ Happy birthday ----tia!
Wi.W ~ Happy belated birthday ----tia!


30 July, 2016

1 jour de joie (chant)

30 juillet, 2016.

Over 10 years ago, I wrote a song for 2 friends who were getting married. I had offered - they said, Yes. I said, do you want light or heavy evangelistic? They said, Heavy, please.

The working title for their wedding song was "Day of joy". I think I finalised it in October or November 2005.

I'm going to quote the 2nd verse here, for the sake of the spouse and progeny of one of my cousins, Tina - who would have been 40 this week, had she won the battle with cancer in November 2015.

Music & Lyrics © L.T. Cheng, 2006-2016. Not to be reproduced without written permission.


There is a day of joy, for which we wait in hope,
When our Lord and Christ His bride will have received,
And His bride will be the Church, all who have followed Him,
Who when they heard His good news, they believed.

And they will be there at the Lord's wedding feast,
And His invitation is for everyone.
Will you accept the saving grace He offers you in Christ?

It's much more than marriage - it's eternal life.


17 April, 2016

2 ou 3 dons, semaine de 21 mars 2016

Between mid-January and late March, quite unexpectedly, I received 3 gifts of financial significance from 3 different sources.

For those who follow me here or glance occasionally into other social media outlets where I am active, I should tell you that since the start of 2015 there have been sharp, unforeseeable increases in my housing costs.

With strata levies and special levies being raised on properties across my city, I had been facing the sad prospect of maybe returning to full-time paid secular work in order to earn enough to keep up with the essential property costs (of living in a 38 sq.m. box worth $355k that mainly belongs to my mother!) This would have meant even greater losses for me - giving up part-time theological study at Moore, giving up time I wanted to spend doing more Christian ministry and growing in ministry skills to prepare for the future, not to mention giving up my stabilised sense of mental health (my last FT job at school in 2011 created a very bad state of mental health with severe anger management issues).

Whether this sounds noble or not, I was praying (both by myself and with others) for a short-term resolution to these unavoidable financial hurdles - at least, for the kind of resolution where I would not be forced into returning to full-time school teaching and therefore dropping out of Moore for 6 months (or longer).

I estimated that at least the first of these strata-plus-special levies would be around $1300, although I did not make this widely known.

14 janvier 2016

At this time, an uncle informed me that someone he knew would be sending a secret anonymous ministry gift my way. Shortly thereafter a cheque for $200 arrived in the mail, a gracious provision from God which made paying a small electricity bill a whole lot easier.

21 mars 2016

In this week (the Easter week), the 2 other gifts I inferred in my post title arrived. One given in secret, from an honest and hardworking source I am not permitted to disclose, amounting to $1000. The other, a thanksgiving cheque for $300.

Now do the mathematics, friends. What does $1000 plus $300 equal..?

It is important right now to clarify that NEITHER of the 2 donations above (totalling the exact $1300 I had estimated) were given by people who knew:
(a) I was in need of this kind of support, OR
(b) I had calculated, and was therefore asking for, a provision of $1300 in the upcoming quarter.


God in His great mercy was at work, behind the scenes, moving these 2 sets of people to give particular amounts that in fact, when combined, matched the exact amount I thought I might need and was praying about - without either of the donating parties having ANY idea of the precise sum!

I thought it was great reading about this kind of stuff happening to George Müller in the 19th century (see http://www.desiringgod.org/messages/george-muellers-strategy-for-showing-god#57 or http://www.sermonillustrator.org/illustrator/sermon11/george_muller2.htm for more).

I didn't assume, nor claim certainty that it would happen for me - because whilst God does promise to provide all our needs "according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus" (PHIL. 4:19), it doesn't follow that what I define as a NEED is what God may agree or decide is one.

That said, I am extra joyful and thankful about what God's provision through these unknowing (and exact!) donations has meant for the next few months.

From George Müller himself:
"The gifts have been given to me 'without one single individual having been asked by me for any thing. The reason why I have refrained altogether from soliciting any one for help is, that the hand of God evidently might be seen in the matter, that thus my fellow-believers might be encouraged more and more to trust in Him, and that also those who know not the Lord, may have a fresh proof that, indeed, it is not a vain thing to pray to God.'"

I am not so noble as he, only a little shepherdess
-  and yet in His grace and mercy, God has once again given water in the desert and streams in the wasteland as drink to me whom He chose, that I might proclaim His praise (ISA. 43:20-21).


08 July, 2015

1 rédaction

In His mercy, God has just granted me a credit result for an essay.

I was thinking of sharing it publicly regardless of the result, as it's an issue on which most people I know have differing opinions. But I feel vindicated about sharing it now since the quality of the writing was considered passable.

Enjoy the next 2000 words and I hope it makes you think more deeply than before...

Essay topic:  How God’s people should clothe themselves, specifically what is considered appropriate for Christian women serving God.

As a woman involved in Christian ministry in mainstream Western culture, it is important for me to reflect God’s standards concerning what I wear, rather than conforming unthinkingly to society’s view of acceptable clothing. Not only does this topic relate to my integrity as a gospel worker, but it also has pastoral implications. Over a decade helping out at NextGen conference, where young male and female leaders learn how to correctly handle and teach the Bible, I have noticed in recent years that many female NextGen delegates wear outfits no less skimpy or modest than what the average Australian non-Christian woman wears today - not, I suspect, because female believers have thoughtfully chosen the fashions they wear, but rather because they are unclear about the Bible’s teaching on this and are simply absorbing their surrounding culture. As a female Christian leader past thirty, and therefore one of the mentors to younger women at my church, it is crucial also that I model a godly, biblically informed attitude to how we dress as women who profess to worship God (1 Tim. 2:10).

Old Testament ideas
On consulting the Scriptures some interesting issues regarding clothing arose. The first was that God created humanity without clothing; man and woman were naked and were not ashamed (Gen. 2:25). At creation, there was nothing to be ashamed of. Everything was good. However, once man and woman had eaten the fruit that God had commanded them not to, they became ashamed of their nakedness and sought to cover up (Gen. 3:7), hiding from each other and from God.

In His mercy, God clothed them with animal skins (Gen. 3:21), almost certainly more adequate covering than fig leaves. The idea of shame associated with nakedness surfaced again after the flood, when Noah became drunk and uncovered in his tent (Gen. 9:21). He commended Shem and Japheth for their respect in refusing to look at him even as they covered him up (9:22-23), whilst Ham’s attitude was cursed. Moreover, in the Law given to Moses, God commanded that linen undergarments covering hips and thighs be made as part of the priestly outfit for Aaron and his sons, lest the exposure of their naked flesh mean that they ‘bear guilt and die’ (Ex. 28:42-43). Also by Moses’ time, it was clear that clothing was perceived to have a practical function. A cloak taken in pledge, for example, was to return to its owner by sunset (Ex. 22:26) because it was needed for physical protection from the elements during sleep. A similar idea appears in the description of the woman of noble character (Prov. 31:21); she is commended for clothing her household well in time of snow.

Israel's history
Clothing in Israel’s time, when mentioned in detail, seems to have had some significance for the wearer and observers, for example the aforementioned priestly garments of Aaron and his sons as directed in Exodus 28. Pieces of Aaron’s outfit were symbolic, such as the signet-stone breastpiece with the names of the twelve tribes (28:15-30). And the people themselves were told to make blue-corded tassels on the corners of their clothes as reminders of God’s commands, and so they would not follow their own desires (Num. 15:38).

Some reported incidents in Israel’s history draw on these aspects of shame and religious significance with regard to dress. One to note is when the ark returns to Jerusalem (2 Sam. 6). David, Israel’s king, danced before the LORD wearing a linen ephod - perhaps stylistically similar to the priestly ephod worn by Aaron’s sons in service. On the one hand this could be seen as a worship celebration with appropriate religious clothing; yet the king’s wife Michal considered it shameless and vulgar (2 Sam. 6:20). The outcome for Michal suggests that, as God had stated to Samuel years earlier, hearts are more important than outward appearances (1 Sam. 16:7).

Wisdom literature
Proverbs 31:10-31, as already mentioned, also emphasises inner qualities over external adorning in profiling the woman of noble character. It focuses primarily on her good works, actions by which her entire household benefits. When reference is eventually made to her appearance in verse 17, she is first depicted as dressing herself with strength (also in 31:25). The fact that she and her household wear scarlet, fine linen and purple indicates attractive and practical attire (31:21- 22), and her efforts at buying and preparing material are key to this (e.g., verse 13, working wool and flax, hands holding distaff and spindle in verse 19, making garments in verse 24). However, it is clearly emphasised throughout how she works to provide for her household, rather than on how well they all dress.

New Testament - Gospel references
Clothing is attributed some significance in the gospels. Following the Beatitudes Jesus teaches his disciples not to worry about their apparel (Matt. 6:28), promising that the Heavenly Father who clothes flowers will also clothe them. In his denouncement of the Pharisees, one issue Jesus addresses is their overemphasis on religious garments (Matt. 23:5). When a woman suffering from long-term bleeding follows Jesus for healing, she touches the fringe of his garment (Luke 8:44). Including this detail evokes the Numbers 15 tassels instruction, indicating that Jesus dresses in accordance with Mosaic Law. Another implied law is that of Leviticus 15:15, where contact with a bleeding woman renders wearers and clothing unclean - yet, because Jesus is He who fulfils the Law, rather than His garment being contaminated at her touch, she is cleansed, receiving healing.

Yet another occurrence is in Jesus’ wedding banquet parable (Matt. 22), when a man not wearing wedding clothes is evicted from the king’s feast into outer darkness (22:11-13). Jesus’ teaching on the kingdom of heaven warns that those entering dress appropriately - most likely in what the King gives them to wear rather than their own choice of attire. This may be an indirect reference back to Isaiah 61, where the LORD garbs His servant with clothes of salvation and righteousness (61:10), and pre-empts the bride of the Lamb in Revelation who is given fine linen to wear, the righteous acts of the saints (Rev. 19:8).

The early church
It seems that clothing, among other things, became an issue for the early church. James warned his Christian hearers not to treat one another differently based on their attire - to avoid the worldly tendency to treat people wearing finer clothing better than those who appeared shabby (James 2:2-4). Paul instructed the Ephesians to put on the new self (Eph. 4:24), to clothe themselves with qualities like compassion, kindness and love (Eph. 4:32-5:2) and to put on the full armour of God (6:11-13). Not long afterwards, as Timothy pastored in Ephesus, Paul had more specific words for believing women to adorn themselves with good works rather than elaborate hairstyles or jewellery and the expensive, often immodest fashions around them (1 Tim. 2:9-10). Likewise, Peter, writing to the diaspora, advised women to seek the inner beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit over externals (1 Pet. 3:3), then later instructed all his believing readers to be clothed with humility (1 Pet. 5:5). That the apostles addressed heart issues over and above outward adornment shows that the culture in which the church lived placed much value on outward beauty. 

Secondary literature

Secondary literature consulted during topical research included a range of genres - careful, detailed Bible exposition (MacArthur, Roberts and Smith), systematic theology (Bridges) and Christian Living (Hughes, Ramsay and others). The expository texts kept the material tightly in context with thoughtful reflections on key Hebrew and Greek terms and had no perceived weaknesses. A minor weakness common to the Christian Living books was that certain statements could be misinterpreted as legalistic in terms of actions recommended, although in each case these seemed justified by the Biblical principles in view.

Common to some of this literature is the 1 Timothy 2 text being key information on what clothing Christian women should choose, even today. Smith (2012, 28), in her expository chapter on this text, notes that women’s behaviour and dress are ‘to show restraint and modesty, good judgment and self-control.’[1]  Hughes (2001, 175) expands on the text by saying, ‘we do not spend excessive time or money on our appearance. Our primary attention and emphasis shouldn’t be on the external things – that is, what we wear – but on what we do.’[2]  MacArthur (1986) states that Ephesian women's overemphasis on appearance hindered the gathered believers, asserting their worship was ‘polluted by women who saw it as a way to flaunt their wealth, to demonstrate their beauty, to put on a sexually attractive demonstration to men that would draw their focus away from the living God’[3].  Harris (2003, 91), whilst not directly referencing the text, raises this when he tells young Christian women, ‘...when you wear clothing that accentuates, draws attention to or highlights the feminine parts of your body, it’s like wearing a flashing neon sign pointing to the very thing [a young man]’s trying not to be consumed with.’[4]  Smith sums up the contrast: ‘What is to draw attention to [women] is not how they look but how they live.”[5]

Two key sections of Scripture have not yet been discussed. Both were written by Paul to Christians concerning whether or not to eat certain foods - Romans 14 and 1 Corinthians 8-10. Roberts (2011, 108) stresses that the principles taught in chapters 8-10 of 1 Corinthians ‘still have a wide application to us today, as we try to work out the godly way to behave in matters where there is no direct command from God.’[6]

In addition to answering the believers’ initial concerns, Paul taught these principles to inform their attitudes and conduct. Common to both texts is Paul’s counsel that no-one should cause a fellow Christian to stumble by anything they do - that no obstacle or hindrance be put in a believer’s way (e.g. Rom. 14:13, also verses 20-21; 1 Cor. 8:9, also verse 13). The Roman Christians are exhorted to act in love (14:15), avoiding what might destroy God’s work and make mutual edification their goal, with a parallel encouragement also given to the Corinthians to build up others for their good in everything they do (1 Cor. 10:23- 24). That is to say, in deciding what to eat, drink, wear or otherwise do, God’s people need to consider whether this will be of help or benefit to another believer.

Mainstream Western culture is quick to insist on our own rights - freedom to eat, drink, wear or do whatever we like with virtually no consideration for how our actions might affect others. Apparently this sense of entitlement was common for the Corinthians too. More than once Paul refers to the rights that he or others have (1 Cor. 8:9 and 9:12-15), however then instructs believers not only to avoid causing others to stumble but also to put up with anything rather than hinder the gospel (9:12). To win people over to the gospel of salvation is why he renounces freedoms he might otherwise utilise (9:19-23). He desires God’s glory (10:31) and seeks the good of others over his own, that they be saved (10:33). As Roberts continues, ‘we are to be concerned not for ourselves above all, but for others. Even when God’s word and our conscience tell us we are free to do something, we should still refrain from doing it, if it might have a negative effect on Christians [...], or on non-Christians’[7].

Ethridge and Arterburn (2004, 93) also allude to not being a stumbling-block and walking in love when discussing how greatest commandment’s influence on women’s apparel when they say, ‘…we can always go back to Jesus' commandment [Matthew 22:39] as a guideline for how we treat others, even when it comes to how we are to dress’[8],  with challenges such as, ‘Would wearing this outfit be a loving expression, not causing my brothers to stumble and fall?’[9]

Topical researching about appropriate apparel for female ministers of the gospel has turned up both specific instructions and broader principles driven by humility and passion for the gospel of salvation. Christian women living today in Australia, like believers in the Roman Empire, live ‘in a world where appearance counts. Clothing has little to do with function, and more to do with adorning our bodies and making an impression on those we meet.”[10]

 It is a temptation to worldliness, recognised by Bridges (2007, 171), who observes that “especially younger [Christian] women, are going along with the styles of the unbelieving world around them.”[11]  He warns that if they ‘simply go along with the immodest fashions of the day, you are worldly in this area of your life.’[12]  Elsewhere Bridges writes, ‘Quite possibly there is no greater conformity to the world among evangelical Christians today than the ways in which we, instead of presenting our bodies as holy sacrifices, pamper and indulge them in defiance of our better judgment and our Christian purpose’[13].

The calling for Christian women today, especially those serving in ministry, is to conform by their clothing choices not to the world, but to their Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. 

[1] Claire Smith, God’s good design (Kingsford: Matthias Media, 2012), 28.
[2] Barbara Hughes, Disciplines of a godly woman (Wheaton, Illinois: Crossway, 2001), 175.
[3] John Macarthur, ‘God's High Calling for Women, Part 1’, Grace to You, last modified 2 February 1986, accessed 30 May 2015, http://www.gty.org/resources/sermons/54-14/gods-high-calling-for-womenpart-1.
[4] Joshua Harris, Sex Is Not The Problem (Lust Is) [Colorado Springs: Multnomah, 2003], 91.
[5] Smith, God’s good design, 29.
[6] Vaughan Roberts, True spirituality (Nottingham: Inter-Varsity Press, 2011), 108.
[7] Roberts, True spirituality, 118.
[8] Shannon Ethridge and Stephen Arterburn, Every young woman's battle (Colorado Springs: Waterbrook Press, 2004), 92.
[9] Ethridge and Arterburn, Every young woman's battle, 93.
[10] Lesley Ramsay, ‘Acceptance’, in What women really need (ed. Lesley Ramsay; Sydney South: Evangelism Ministries, 2005), 75.
[11] Jerry Bridges, Respectable sins (Colorado Springs: NavPress, 2007), 171.
[12] Bridges, Respectable sins, 171.
[13] Jerry Bridges, The pursuit of holiness (Colorado Springs: NavPress, 1978), 111.

27 June, 2015

5 citations

Whilst writing an essay for a Moore College subject in the past month, I got into reading a book by Vaughan Roberts (rector at St. Ebbe's Church, Oxford in the UK) called True Spirituality. The essay is long submitted (not handed back marked yet *wibbles*) but I just kept reading. Here are some pearlers from the Roberts book, by which I mean, amazingly valuable quotes (or just quotes I liked, or was challenged by).

"In our contemporary world, and often sadly our Christian world, which tends to devalue singleness, the immediate challenge [for us as believers] is not to think, or imply to others, that singleness is second-best." (Roberts 2011, 88).

"Paul's instruction to widows in verse 39 [of 1 CORINTHIANS 7] applies to all Christians: we should only marry those who 'belong to the Lord'. It surely follows that it is unwise to enter into a romantic friendship with a non-Christian, which, as it deepens, will lead either to the temptation to disobey God in marrying them or to the agony of a break-up" (2011, p.102).

"Christians belong together in a local church as the body of Christ, so the behaviour of each individual has an inevitable impact upon the others, for both good and ill. The Corinthians, therefore, should have realised that their accommodation of serious sin in their midst was bound to have a significant effect, not just on the individual concerned, but on the whole church" (p.63).

"Just as yeast spreads and grows, so sin expands in a church. If nothing is done when a church member is notoriously dishonest in his business dealings...or lives a sexually immoral lifestyle, the impression is given that it does not matter, and soon others are bound to follow, so that the yeast of sin begins to pervade the whole church" (p.63).

"Since Christ, the fulfilment of the Passover lambs, has already been sacrificed on the cross, it is high time Christians do all they can to remove the yeast of sin from His church. Paul commands the Corinthians, 'Get rid of the old yeast that you may be a new batch without yeast - as you really are. For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed' (1 Corinthians 5:7). The implication should be clear for us. Far from turning a blind eye to public and persistent sin in our churches and denominations, we should take it seriously and, where necessary, exercise discipline to ensure it does not spread" (p.64).

Worth considering, especially in light of how permissive our Western culture is by comparison.


Roberts, Vaughan. True spirituality. Nottingham: Inter-Varsity Press, 2011.

29 June, 2014

5 ans après

5 years ago this week, I went on mission.

It was my first overseas cross-cultural experience, in a country where English is, at most, a second or third language.

I joined a team of like-minded Christians from a range of cultural and linguistic backgrounds,
- such as Armenia, the DR Congo, England, France, Guadeloupe, the Netherlands, Poland and South Korea.

For most of our week together, we spent about 2 hours each day hanging around outside university campus entrances. In those two hours, we approached as many students as had the time to stop and talk to us (not many stopped) and made efforts (sometimes quite feeble, garbled efforts) to engage them in conversations about the person & work of the Lord Jesus Christ as revealed throughout the Bible (most were not interested in talking for long; some openly mocked or sneered at us). Occasionally we were able to give away the odd Bible or an evangelistic tract (e.g. "Two Ways to Live", or Chappo's "What is a Christian?" - but not often). We also invited the university students we met to our evangelistic events and Bible studies that we ran during our mission week (interest and/or positive response were rare though)...

What really struck me about the local unbelievers (principally uni.-aged students) in the places where we did mission was how unwilling they were even to discuss religion at all. In Australia we still experience a fair bit of openness to discuss different belief systems, and there seems to be (in general) a tolerance of people who hold different religious views to others (though that's starting to change for the worse). Yet in this country where I was on mission, there seemed to be much more intolerance of anyone who expressed religious beliefs. A keep-it-to-yourself, faith-has-no-place-in-public, what-an-uneducated-idiot-you-are-to-be-so-deluded attitude.

Our team's outreach language was the official language of the country:

The city in which we were operating:
Paris. Yes, the one in FRANCE.

Most people see this nation as a holiday destination
- but even many believers don't see it as a nation under condemnation because of its refusal to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ to be saved.

They see French people as Catholic
- but excuse me, since when did the Roman Catholic version of the gospel give anyone total assurance of salvation?

They might even think most of the French are Christians - but the reality is, more than 25% of France's young people (ages 18-25) declare themselves to be atheists; most Catholics are only nominal and non-churchgoing; and the Protestants are few in number and generally poorly taught the Bible in their churches (unlike numerous Christians I know in Sydney churches).

Which is why I'm committed to God's mission in France.
Having been there; having seen what it's like to be young and Christian in France; knowing what a tough gig it is to reach people on the university campuses or to serve long-term in ministry there (whether among uni. students, in churches, or elsewhere); having met and made friends with ministry apprentices and poorly/not-fully-funded staff workers
- I want to keep being a part of this work.
Praying for it, caring for those involved in it (or trying, anyway), giving out of my relative poverty to it - and even going over to help my friends out with it, if God might open the door.

France is one of the major reasons why, 5 years after my first visit there to see and join in with the French GBU ministry to students, I accepted the offer to begin studies in theology at Moore College in 2014.

Because I want to be better trained for ministry - just in case...


15 June, 2014

10 vidéos (si vous avez le temps)

The last 6 months have been insane, even though I haven't been working full-time at all.

Did I forget to tell you that I got to start studies at Bible college this year?
Only one subject per semester at present (still awaiting guidance about whether to go full-time/75% in Semester II or not); still sticking with my existing employment until further notice.

Prayer according to PHIL. 4:19 appreciated.

In other news, I've really gotten into a PG-rated series from 2009-2013  -  "Horrible Histories".
Live-action sketch comedy, generally thought of as a kids' show BUT, in fact, even in its 4th season it was winning adult comedy awards.

So just for fun..

..here are ten of my favourite song clips from this series!
(Whilst I work out the best & cheapest way to actually obtain all 5 series on DVD...less easy to access in AU. than in the UK. *sob*)

1. "The Monarchs' Song (The English Kings and Queens)"
So much hilarity (and royalty). How can you not smile? Or at least bop along?

2.  "(We're the) Georgian Navy"
Think patriotic chant, but minus the usual alcohol-induced haze and plus a lot of historically accurate information presented via clever lyrics... (.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qnWtwYuwwE)

3. "The Few (RAF Pilots)"
The only reason this song doesn't rank higher than #3 is because it's just slightly disturbing - don't you think? .. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XOXRvu-58qA

4. "Boudicca"
Those of you who have known me long enough to experience my Dark side should understand why this angry Celtic queen's history resounds with me ;P

5. "The Truth About Richard III"
The solo performer in this clip is just a bit younger than me. Can act. Can dance. Can make me laugh. And boy, can he sing - as this live gig shows. Wish I was half as talented.

6. "Alexander the Great"
This actor's strength? Why, he makes a ruthless historical figure from the intertestamental period look almost attractive. (Not a bad singing voice, either.)

7. "Funky Monks" 
If there are other classically-trained musicians out there who appreciate this style variance, please...sing out?

8. "Literally (The Viking Song)"
Ignore the lyrics..
Ignore the lyrics.. ..literally.

9. "Spartan High School Musical"
The energy in this clip is invigorating
- dancing that routine looks like so much fun.
(Would hate to be a teacher in Spartan times, though! .. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ysmK6LUavR0)

10. "The English Civil War Song"
Liked the choreography in this one, too - and it's got some classic one-liners.
If you listen carefully.

Just bubbling under, an 11th song with quite clever, factual lyrics - considering it's a spoof of Lady Gaga's style (only with more decent clothes). If you dislike the actual artist, don't click on this link.
(You were warned. I like this spoof - but I'd personally never listen to any real music from her if I could help it.)

I do promise some actual serious blog posts this year, as well - just not right now...



23 March, 2014

6 sujets de grâces

In a non-easy week, I am thankful for small things...

The undeserved gift of blood relatives who show gracious support & love in spite of their disagreement with my lifestyle/life choices.

Prayerful & caring Christian community at both my AM Anglican and PM Chinese-background churches.

Being moved to pray/feel sad for an unsaved classmate even though I'm pretty sure she dislikes me and for whose salvation (until this week) it has been quite hard to pray.

Affirming words from my ballet teacher for the 1st time since before my calf muscle injury.
(As opposed to no words at all, so I couldn't be sure whether I was doing the right thing or not.)

Faithful, encouraging co-workers who serve with me in children's ministry (we work with all ages from 1-11).

God's Word in the Bible, which is living & active - and esp. this week has been timely in the midst of emotional strain.



12 January, 2014

5 raisons

En fait, il y a 20 raisons..!

Another new year, and another CMS Summer School!!

I love going to CMS Summer School, the early January annual conference of the Church Missionary Society of NSW.

I thought I’d start 2014 by solidifying at least 5 reasons for why CMS SS is, by far, my FAVOURITE of all holiday/weekend Christian conferences.

However, as I made notes on why I think this conference is SO good, I ended up with at least 20 reasons for going, instead of just 5.

And this is by no means a comprehensive list.


You may be wondering  -  what happens at CMS Summer School that makes it such a good time away? Well, here are 5 general reasons why it's worth the week...

En générale

1.  Faithful, challenging Bible teaching with direct & personal applications to Christian life AND witness
(incl.emphasis on going to the ends of the earth)

2.  Detailed, current information about the needs of Christians and/or churches living outside of
-  or far away from  -  gospel-rich Western cultures
(e.g. most of South America, Asia and Africa)

3.  Hearing from any missionaries who have been serving in the gospel-poor fields of Europe
-  particularly those in France with the GBU (www.gbu.fr)

4.  Extended times of prayer, often in response to missionaries’ reports about God’s faithfulness, work and/or teaching in the situations where He placed them

5.  Catching up with link missionaries whom my Sydney city AM church* supports and/or with friends who have become missionaries (plus any of their children)

Missionnaires (missio’s)

1.  Chances to chat with with missio’-friends in the local Aldi or Coles, or just on the main street
(e.g. this year included a spontaneous catch-up with Leoni P. on HA from Cambodia)

2.  Chances to meet and/or chat with missio’s at the morning tea or shuttle car pick-up zones, in the Tribes&Nations Fairtrade coffee queues or other locations on the KCC site
{e.g. this year’s chance meetings included former missio’s such as Deborah M. (back from France since ‘12), Judy S. (back from Singapore since ‘13), Owen C. (back from France since ‘08) and Steve B. (back from Tanzania since pre-’07..)}

3.  Multiple video clips with different missio’s currently on location or back for HA  -  during not only the morning but also the evening programs

4.  Daily mid-morning sessions with missio’s sharing personal reflections on aspects of cross-cultural ministry or life such as contentment, perseverance, poverty, transitions, conflict resolution...

5.  Supper sessions after 2130h  -  often featuring missio’s who have served for over 10 years;
though these seminars were of much longer duration than the AM ones, yet always, ALWAYS it was worth the extra hour of downtime or sleep lost by going

Musique (chants de louange)

5 hymns I love singing from the CMS playlist but almost NEVER get a decent airing at my own Milson’s Point PM church** service
(note these are genuine PRE-1970’s hymn versions, thank you so very much!):

And Can It Be
Be Thou My Vision
Crown Him With Many Crowns
Guide Me O Thou Great Jehovah
O For A Thousand Tongues

5 other songs I love singing from the CMS playlist but rarely ever get a decent airing at my own Milson’s Point PM church (*sigh*):

Great things (Smith & Begbie)
Nothing but the blood of Jesus (Morrow)
Send me out (Fee)
This life I live (Morrow)
Undivided (Smith)


Why do I consider CMS Summer School?

In short
  -  if I say that Jesus Christ is Lord and Saviour (ie. if I call myself a Christian)  -  
then as His disciple, just as He directed the first ones in MATT. 9:35ff, He wants me to ask the Lord of the harvest to send out His workers;  and to be involved in witnessing to Him "to the very ends of the earth" (ACTS 1:8)  -  that God's name be glorified.

But how can I ask if I don't look at His harvest fields and take an interest in what needs there are?

And how can I witness, not only to "all nations" (MATT. 28:18ff) but to the extremities of the earth without knowing anything of what God may be already doing there?

CMS Summer School is such an invaluable resource for the twofold task of asking & witnessing.

It never fails to be encouraging and challenging and always forces me to rethink where I am, what I'm doing with the rest of my life, and what God might intend before that life is over...


*Anglican cathedral.

**Chinese-background, English-speaking, most attending are aged 17 to 27 y.o.

23 December, 2013

9 versets d'un prophète - concernant les prophètes faux

JÉRÉMIE 23,14-22

In 3 months of reading about the theology of miraculous, complete & instantaneous healing (inspired by a serious calf muscle tear in my left leg) - as well as modern prophecy and tongues - I stumbled upon 9 verses from a prophet - about false prophets!

Here is one striking verse from the JEREMIAH passage:
"..If they had stood in my council,
then they would have
proclaimed my words to my people,
and they would have turned them
from their evil way,
and from the evil of their deeds." (v.22)

Therefore, friends and Christian brethren,
prophesy not to me
- unless it be about my lack of godliness,
unless you desire me to
"throw off everything that hinders
and the sin that so easily entangles" (HEB. 12,1).

P.S. Torn calf muscle happened in mid-September;
3 months have passed without the muscle being totally healed.
It is getting better - but for the moment, God our Father has decided on gradual rather than instant full healing.
HAB. 3,17-19.

21 September, 2013

3 ans plus...

I am now 3 years older than Jesus was when He died (on the cross as Saviour of the world, before rising as Lord, commissioning His followers and ascending to heaven).

(Oh, well, technically 3 years and 1 day.)

Another year to reflect on what the last 36 years have been worth.
What have I achieved?
Where am I going (or what is my ultimate destination?)
What should the rest of my life look like (whatever time God gives me between my past achievements and my future destination)?

The answer to the 1st question: Nothing, without God.
.. My current standing before Him (saved/assured of eternal life & sinless perfection);
.. my sometimes verbatim knowledge/memory of whole chunks of the Bible;
.. my ability up until last weekend to turn 4 types of double pirouettes even on a weak L leg;
.. my gradually stabilising financial situation;
.. my completed childcare, gifted ed., primary ed., music & French qualifications;
.. my better-than-the-average-person's relationships with family, church, work & ballet people..
..all these accomplishments, God has done for me. (ISAIAH 26,12.)

The answer to the 2nd question: Eternal life; heaven; the direct presence of God my Saviour & Father & the Lord Jesus Christ.

The answer to the 3rd question:
".. if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me--the task of testifying to the gospel of God's grace."
{ACTS 20,24^(!!).}


^(!!) Ideally. Note I said "should" - this is regrettably not a reflection of actual life events..! So if you pray nothing else...please pray this verse for me!)

P.S. Thank you, friends, for your messages on my Wall on f'book.
Whatever you wrote has been transferred here in your honour.
To protect your anonymity, I've only used your initials...

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